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LOTS OF QUIET ON THE ROAD EAST OF RALEIGH     (Cheri)

9/22/2022

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Yesterday Mark and I were traveling just north of Selma, North Carolina.  As we moved into the left-hand turn lane to switch to another highway, we saw this sign on the right-hand side of the road.  We made the turn, but Mark got out and got a picture for me.
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Believe it or not, this is a postcard of the vacation spot in its heyday:
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I found the postcard on someone else's blog.  He loved the vestiges of history the way Mark and I do.  Unfortunately he doesn't blog anymore, but I'm going to read his archives to look for more adventures.

There are also a few pictures of the resort's remnants-in-the-brush on the blogger's Flickr account.  One of his visitors said that it was still open in the '60's.  "My school bus route took us right past the motel. If I recall correctly, there was a murder there which was it’s [sic] death knell."  (Maybe I should add a "True Crime" category of blog posts?)

Anyway, Mark and I took a few days to begin our "All Carolinas Quilt Shop Hop" on Tuesday.  Over 80 quilt shops in North and South Carolina are promoting their shops this month and next, with prizes large and small available to quilters who make it to the most shops, shops in the largest number of towns, etc. 

With this trip to the Raleigh region, I've made it to 10 or 11 shops so far.  Next month we will take two to three weeks, head diagonally Hilton Head, at the south end of South Carolina's coast, and travel northward to nearly the Virginia border, getting a preview of the area for future trips and "hopping" along the quilting trail.

We had breakfast in Holly Springs, in the southern suburbs of Raleigh.
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A vodka-kale mimosa???  That sounds like an experience you would drink to forget!  We didn't imbibe, and breakfast was good.

We quickly left the suburbs, onto two-lane highways through cotton and tobacco fields.  We found this cemetery, surrounded on all four sides by tobacco.
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This was an old cemetery, largely "populated" by three families.  There were a number of headstones commemorating deaths during the 1918 Influenza Epidemic, including two wives of one man, which happened six weeks apart.

It's sad, but artistically striking, to see headstones seemingly abandoned:
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I was going to talk about our stop in Selma, primarily at a superb ice cream store - a much more cheery topic to end on than death - but the ice cream store and its owner deserve a full post, so I'll come back to that soon.
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Don Kellogg link
9/22/2022 10:25:20 pm

Hi Mark and Cheri,

I have been following your exploits with interest. Sounds like you are having a good time.

We are going to our niece's Bat Mitzvah on October 22 and plan to spend an extra 4 days in the Kentucky area near Cincinnati, Ohio. I have never been to the Bluegrass country and dwould like to see that plus the fall foliage. It seems to me that you have been there. Any recommendations?

Best wishes , Don et ux

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Mark A Young
9/26/2022 05:01:25 pm

Don,
Very nice to hear from you, hope you both are doing well.

We Have not been to the area around the TN and OH border. You still might be able to get some of the fall colors in the 3rd week of October. I was amazed last year by how much the area’s around Winston Salem lit up. We arrived here a year ago this week, and had fall colors into November. I hope you are able to catch some while you are in the area.

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Marian Yamaura Frazier
9/22/2022 11:40:56 pm

I am always glad to see your blog. I still hope to see your quilt shops.
The cemetery was interesting. No one is caring for those tombstones anymore.

It is so nice and green along the roads.

Love,
Marian

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Cheri
9/23/2022 07:47:01 pm

Hi Marian, You are pretty much right about the cemetery. There was a sign at the front that told visitors where they could send contributions towards its care. It is in the care of the Ruritans, which seem to be a cross between the Lions-type clubs and rural tax-supported districts.

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Donna
9/23/2022 12:45:44 am

Ooooh, yes, post on the ice cream blog! I appreciate your comment about the few families filling most of the gravesites. I found the same thing when looking for my grandfather's grave in Kansas.

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Cheri
9/23/2022 08:53:29 pm

Just did the new post, Donna! I don't know if you saw the "North Carolina is Just Different #1" post, that talks about the massive number of cemeteries here.

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Leslie Patino
9/25/2022 10:12:29 pm

Hi Cheri, your post brings back memories for me, mostly of road trips from Texas to Westminster, SC back in the mid-50s to mid-70s to visit the extended family. We stayed in motels like the one in the post card. As for the cemetery, I've pretty much lost touch with SC relatives these days, but even into the 70s, upkeep of the Westminster cemetery, with generations from both sides of my family, was more or less a do-it-yourself business, I believe. If you ever happen to make it to tiny Westminster, (apple harvest and festival are the big event--in September) visit Moon's Drug Store, started by a great uncle and owned and operated for decades by my grandfather, then uncles, then cousin.

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Cheri
9/26/2022 08:56:07 pm

Hi Leslie,

I know exactly the area you are talking about. The first area that we talked about moving to was Anderson, SC, just on the other side of Lake Hartwell. Since Interstate 85 works through that region, it will be easy to stop sometime, either on our way to Atlanta, or to see Mark's sister and dad in Texas.

You have a wonderful set of memories, indeed.

At some point I will have to write about how my family traveled to see cross-country family . . . no motels for us, but good memories, too.

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Bud
9/27/2022 06:21:31 pm

Fun trips for you two. I’m a bit jealous!

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